People often speak about doing “shadow” work, healing their “shadow” and integrating their “shadow.” What we often don’t realize is that the “shadow” is merely an indication of the light. Without …
Measuring Sticks
Does success in “the world” mean success in your life? We have a tendency to measure our success by society’s standards. Do we have a big house? A car? A spouse? Kids? And most importantly, a good …
Corralling Your Nonsense
When we work with others, as a profession, vocation or avocation, we sometimes think it’s all about them. Actually, it’s all about us. When we work with a group, whether it’s our tribe, our …
Notches In the Belt
Trusting ourselves is one of the greatest challenges, especially if we are conscientious. Because we know all the things we have done wrong in the past, because we are acutely aware of all of our …
Facets and Gemstones
There is really only one way to understand the world around us. Many people have come up with all kinds of theories about why things are the way they are, how things got this way, and what to make of …
Tying Your Knots
Commitment is about much more than just making a decision. Yes, it starts with a decision, a decision that has been weighed carefully, outcomes considered, and the responsibilities that go with the …