Relationships are such tricky things.
We come to them with all sorts of expectations, ideas, and history, yet we seem to keep repeating the same patterns.
We search for someone who is completely different form that last disastrous person we had a relationship with, only to find out after a few weeks (or sooner) that our new partner is just the same or worse!
So what’s going on with that?
Whenever we look for answers outside of ourselves, we will always end up disappointed. Especially with relationships, as it’s never really about the other person, it’s about us.
People are wonderful mirrors for what is going on inside of us, we just don’t often realize it.
When we stop making it about the other person and start looking inside ourselves, we find the clues and patterns that underlie the repeating patterns.
It’s not easy, and it is definitely not for those who have a hard time being honest with themselves.
For the person who gets it, who looks inside instead of blaming the other person, a whole new world of empowered relationships await!