Why do we find it so difficult to ask for what we want?
Why do we fear the reactions we will receive when we do?
Is that label of being called Selfish so derogatory that we cannot even go near it?
Society often uses the term “Selfish” when an individual voices their need or desire.
Being Selfish is about being concerned for the Self.
Self-care is not only important, it is essential for our health and growth.
We cannot contribute to society without taking care of our selves first.
Being called “Selfish” is a form of control society uses to get individuals to do what Society wants.
It is all about placing Society’s needs above the individual’s needs.
The fallacy of that point of view is that if the individuals are not taken care of, they cannot take care of society.
So why should we fear being called Selfish?
Actually, it is a compliment.
It means we are strong enough and wise enough to consider our own needs first before we can consider others.
When we come from a place of strength, we are able to contribute more.
When we come from a place of strength, we are able to give from a deeper place.
When we come from a place of strength, we are able to truly give what someone needs most.
We can all learn something from being a little more Selfish.
It means opening our hearts to ourselves first, then we can open to others.
~ Sam Liebowitz, The Conscious Consultant